Know what you mean but despite being nutty about animals İ try and remember people come first and wanted to respect BİL's feelings He has never had a pet in his life so he doesn't understand the fuss but he does like animals and we even caught him on photo cuddling a cat at a friends house!!
Cats being totally contrary do exactly the opposite to what you expect anyway. Since hubby's brother left Tilly got a bashing off a tabby tom last night but would not stay in the apartment. Then this morning İ was woken up by screeching and found she had had a fur-flying encounter with a ginger tom this time so İ kept them both in. Tilly went high up on the kitchen cupboards and slept on Halil's hold-all he'd left behind and Maddy eventually settled on the settee. A couple of hours later hubby got up for the loo and they both begged to be let out!! Maddy has just been home - sat looking confused on the rug mewing, got rewarded with a bowl of biccies and has gone off again to wherever cats dissapear to which is a mystery to us
