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Sue don't let them grind you down, I'm sure you are right about being in front of women, I remember a Turkish woman's quite funny remark when we were talking to an English bloke who mentioned his girlfriend was Turkish "oh good it's usually the other way round". She wasn't being horrible or anything just making a comment and was pleased. You were perhaps an unluckycat that day, maybe it's time to lick you paws and fight another day?