Turkish Relationship/Divorce - Page 3

ChrisBobs · 8th February 2010, 20:55

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Originally Posted by kirmizi

Is it really true that muslims can have more than 1 wife??

It is not legal to have more than one.
Read Celtic's post above!

Lyndsey · 8th February 2010, 21:06

Re the original post...if you have to ask you already have your own doubts. NOT A GOOD SIGN.

pineapple1 · 8th February 2010, 21:30

Ok you've been with him 1 year was he seperated at the time or still living with his wife .???? its very important ...Theres an old turkish trick wereby both husband and wife agree to a divorce while the hubby bleeds the new wife for all she's got , By marrying you that makes half the house his !!! then he'll have more money to keep his real family on , ...this is done yavas yavas to gain your love and trust ...So if you buy a house buy it befor any marriage to him and in one of your familys names , and if you read the threads on here don't be surprised if you never get the tapu , So you loose the man the house and the money its a loose loose situation ....and every time your not around he'll cheat on you too , After all isn't that what he's allready done to one wife so why are you any different ......Very old story my dear , all the " I love you's ...I'm like a tree in the dessert without you ...Phewww girlie just get the next plane home and take off the rose tinted glasses ...You allready know its not right ........Diane

JEANNIE · 8th February 2010, 22:24

Wonder what happened to her !!!!

Jeannie

pineapple1 · 8th February 2010, 22:34

Well jeannie i think she packed her bags and is on standby at the airport if she's an ounce of sense ..........Diane

Robert · 8th February 2010, 22:35

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Originally Posted by chocolaterose

Hi

Just wanted to ask when will i know if my relationship with a turkish man is serious?
Because my turkish boyfriend is going through a divorce
how long does it take?
as i have been going out with him for about a year now
and he wants me to live in turkey and buy a house.
what do you think of a turkish man asking me to buy a house?
i always believe that a turkish man provides for his wife because they make good husbands.
We have got engaged,how should we have celebrated this? Do they take engagments seriously?

Take no notice of the doubters Choc, you should give him every penney you have to show how much you love him, then get a loan , and give him that .true love has no price.

OH PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lara · 9th February 2010, 05:51

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Originally Posted by kirmizi

Is it really true that muslims can have more than 1 wife??

They can also wear a potted plant on their heads whilst shopping.

pineapple1 · 9th February 2010, 06:21

Ah Lara shame it dosen't have a money tree growing out of it !!!! I'd love a plant like that i wish we all had one ......Diane

Rudy&Aytun · 9th February 2010, 08:34

Wow such a bull s**t about Muslims are allowed more than one wife and hard to get divorce... To have more than one wife you must be millionaire as you have to treat all your wives the same if one has a house you have to buy the other one a house, if you catch my drift.

In Turkey divorce is so common you won't believe it and it is illegal to marry more than once. Law in Turkey is based on French law not Saudi law remember that..

Remember Turkey is not Iran or Saudi, and there are many different Muslims like Christians (Catholics, Protestants, Orthodox...)

To chocolate; if you have doubts from the beginning it is not right for you.. As I don't know him or you I cannot answer personal questions. If you want to tell me more to help PM me. Did he introduce you to his family and friends in Turkey?? that is very important to a Turkish relationship also did you guys get engaged among his family - What I mean is was it between you two or was it a festive celebration with his friends and family?

If you met his family and had an engagement party with his relations then i dont see any problem with your relationship... Plus don't worry what they say about home-wrecker in here.. Your feelings are more important and not all marriages end with a death... We are talking about a love here - I HOPE.....

shirleyanntr · 9th February 2010, 09:10

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Originally Posted by pineapple1

Ok you've been with him 1 year was he seperated at the time or still living with his wife .???? its very important ...Theres an old turkish trick wereby both husband and wife agree to a divorce while the hubby bleeds the new wife for all she's got , By marrying you that makes half the house his !!! then he'll have more money to keep his real family on , ...this is done yavas yavas to gain your love and trust ...So if you buy a house buy it befor any marriage to him and in one of your familys names , and if you read the threads on here don't be surprised if you never get the tapu , So you loose the man the house and the money its a loose loose situation ....and every time your not around he'll cheat on you too , After all isn't that what he's allready done to one wife so why are you any different ......Very old story my dear , all the " I love you's ...I'm like a tree in the dessert without you ...Phewww girlie just get the next plane home and take off the rose tinted glasses ...You allready know its not right ........Diane

Diane i find your comments adn advice puzzling..since i know you are in a relationship with a Turkish man...is this how you really see them?
İve been with Yusuf for many years..we have little money go everywhere together and support each other with the many ups and downs we have to contend with ..both with his family..(father on regular dialysis ..and my son s problems) added to that yusuf has now been diagnosed with Diabetes and associated problems...but thats off topic...
İf i felt as you do i wouldnt come backwards and forwards to Turkey as İ know you do..so there must be something you are getting from your time here...come and spill the beans