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21st August 2009, 03:00
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Turkish Relationship/Divorce
Hi
Just wanted to ask when will i know if my relationship with a turkish man is serious?
Because my turkish boyfriend is going through a divorce
how long does it take?
as i have been going out with him for about a year now
and he wants me to live in turkey and buy a house.
what do you think of a turkish man asking me to buy a house?
i always believe that a turkish man provides for his wife because they make good husbands.
We have got engaged,how should we have celebrated this? Do they take engagments seriously?
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21st August 2009, 04:33
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
Hi Chocolaterose and welcome to TLF .
Not knowing your personal circumstances its hard to comment really. But as you did ask can I say the fact that you asked such questions leads me to think that you have your own doubts and for that reason alone, I personally would keep all finances seperate and not buy any house just yet. Just rent for a while and see where that leads you.
hope that helps a little
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21st August 2009, 04:38
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
Choclaterose: you have the writing style of a man, not a love-struck girl, and it resembles a post I saw here about a week ago. You should read back through the forum before you ask such vacuous questions - all the answers are there.
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21st August 2009, 06:52
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
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....and it resembles a post I saw here about a week ago.
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Mmm, it does have a familiar ring about it 
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21st August 2009, 07:57
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
What are you doing in a relationship with a man for a year who is married. Sorry , but are you the reason he is getting divorced. I hope he hasn;t any children.
sorry but homewrecker brings to mind, where are your and his morals.
oh and of course if he does have a wife and children he will be expected to provide for them and thats why he wants you to buy a house.
Lets face it, if you are thinking of marrying and starting a family, hes not goin g to be able to provide for both .
Eve
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22nd August 2009, 02:08
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
thank you so much for writing back so quickly ,i really appreciated it
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22nd August 2009, 03:13
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
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What are you doing in a relationship with a man for a year who is married. Sorry , but are you the reason he is getting divorced. I hope he hasn;t any children.
sorry but homewrecker brings to mind, where are your and his morals.
oh and of course if he does have a wife and children he will be expected to provide for them and thats why he wants you to buy a house.
Lets face it, if you are thinking of marrying and starting a family, hes not goin g to be able to provide for both .
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22nd August 2009, 08:26
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
Are you sure he is getting a divorce? I would really be suspicious of this. Divorce is not so aceptable among a muslim society.
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22nd August 2009, 08:40
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Dont forget that Muslims are allowed more than 1 wife --- be VERY careful !
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22nd August 2009, 09:24
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Re: Turkish Relationship/Divorce
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Are you sure he is getting a divorce? I would really be suspicious of this. Divorce is not so aceptable among a muslim society.
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It's actually much more common then you would think.
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