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Old 7th February 2019, 22:51   #1 (permalink)
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Child Support

A question for those supporting children on ex-spouses:

In the UK support is calculated as a % of income based on no. of children and length of marriage.

However, from what I can gather, here it's often a judicial decision based on income, living standards, etc., and a fixed amount which can change over time should either party request a review.

My soon to be ex and I are trying to figure out the best way forward between us. I'm favouring the UK approach as it is based on the capacity to pay. (As a baseline. I aim to contribute above that voluntarily.)

I'd love to hear (private messages welcome) what principles you may have used to agree something fair in your own divorce.

Hope that's made sense. Fishing around really for a framework that gives my ex some security, doesn't lock me into an unrealistic commitment and, of course, does right by my daughter.
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Good luck Neil , best of for you all .

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Re: Child Support

All sorted. Settled on a fixed minimum sum (200 GBP a month ... I calcuted the UK basrd on average UK income) or 12% of MY GROSS Income, whichever is higher (am self employed). Offered an extra 50% for the first yeat to help with the transition but she said 'no thanks'. A soon to be ex turning down an offer of extra cash might be a first. Then again, she probably thought the gun was loaded.
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Congratulations on your combined civilised attempts to do the best for your daughter. Good luck to all 3 of you.
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