Hi Steph,
There is a little cafe/bar in Kalamar that is very reasonable priced and will be a good place for you to go for snacks and drinks and to meet fellow travellers. The owners are very friendly and will put you at ease. It is called Cafe Vita.
The Atlantis Restaurant which is at the start of the Kalkan end of the Kalamar Road is also worth trying. They have a bar downstairs and a restaurant on the roof with excellent views and a reasonable priced menu. Ozcan and Ercan speak excellent english and will also make you feel welcome and not a "Billy no-mates". To be honest,, you will be made to feel welcome anywhere in Kalkan and quickly make friends. There is a very good web-site that just deals with people visiting Kalkan at
www.enjoykalkan.com they have a section where you can say when you are in Kalkan and introduce yourself to others who are there at the same time. You could make some new friends to meet up with so you won't be totally alone!!!
Joan