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Old 23rd June 2012, 00:38   #1 (permalink)
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Hi I dont post very often but read all useful and helpful posts and think you all do a great job on this site,
but my problem if anyone can help is with an neighbour, i think he is a little crazy, today he came running out his apartment and stood in front of me with his camera and started filming me. (i take it it was switched on) and filmed me till i was out of sight behind a van!!
We have had problems with him and his unstable wife for a few years.
Can anyone advise me on this matter. surley people cannot be aloud to do this kind of thing, even in turkey.
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Old 23rd June 2012, 05:33   #2 (permalink)
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..i know when we take photos of Turkish people .in the markets or werever.. we always ask them for permission first, it would be rude not to..do you have a Turkish friend that speaks good English .so that he could go and speak with this guy and find out why he,s doing this.it may be quite harmless ..but better to be safe than sorry..
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hi. this guy is english not turkish. he was right in front of me by 3 feet pointing right at me.. I really dont know what kind of crazy person he is. WHAT CAN I DO?
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Old 23rd June 2012, 07:56   #4 (permalink)
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It's my understanding that the Zabita deal with disputes etc between neighbours.

Personly, I'd get in this guy's face, ask him what the hell is going on and state forcefully that I'd be contacting the police if it didn't stop immediately. And if it happened again I'd definately complain to the Zabita - get a Turkish friend to help, although your local Zabita may have English speaking officers, they do here in Datca.
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The Jandarma do a better job. Complain to them, they are pretty quick off the mark too.
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Are you a female? İf so ring the jadarma tell them this man is approaching you taking photos etc. They will deal with him without hesitation.
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Old 23rd June 2012, 08:32   #7 (permalink)
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The Jandarma do a better job. Complain to them, they are pretty quick off the mark too.
I had a similar problem with a Turkish lad, I say lad because he was at LEAST 30yrs my junior, about 15 yrs ago.
I told him quite clearly that if he didn't stop following me and phoning me, most days 20-30 times, I would go to the jandarma.

He thought I was joking, I wasn't. The next day he carried on his normal following/checking up on me routine so I went to the jandarma.

They were brilliant. Took him in, gave him a dressing down and he ceased to bother me. I still see him occasionally even now. He's happilly married now with children and we'll stop and have a chat and even a bit of a laugh about the past.

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Kick him in the nuts. This generally leaves an antagonist in no doubt about your POV on any subject.
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My thoughts exactly, I was going to suggest that you strike a pose and when he squares himself to get the shot, give him yours.
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get closer with a decent smile than place your forehead on his nose (quite fast if possible) , than get the camera and crush it on the ground, do not forget to take the memory card.
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